Dear Mom

Out of all the mommies in the world, I was lucky enough to have you. As I look around the world, I couldn't have molded or pictured a better mom than you. Throughout my long basketball career, I think you missed one game and it wasn't because you wanted to but because some idiot rear ended you. I remember Dad and I kept looking at each other during that game. We knew something must be wrong. You NEVER missed a game. (This was before everyone had cell phones so it wasn't that easy to track you down.) I remember the uneasiness that my heart had as we waited to hear from you and the calmness that came over me once I knew you were ok. During high school, I went through some pretty rebellious stages but you never turned your cheek. No matter what I chose to do you always loved me. You were never harsh when my decisions didn't match up with your vision, although you had a funny way of letting me know you disagreed. Anytime I need something there are no questions ask you just do it. There were many years where I fell away from the family but God found a way to bring me back and I am so thankful that he did.

These past few years have been tough but looking at you we all would have never known. No matter what happens your strength is unbreakable. I can still hear your scream when Bill asked me to marry him and the smile that filled the room. The minute it happened you went into high gear and planned the most beautiful wedding in the whole world. You have so many amazing friends and it was clearly evident as I ventured in to my wedding festivities. Every one of your friends was there for me. They said such kind words about you and to me. It showed me exactly who you are.


The day I found out you had breast cancer the world stopped. I began uncontrollably sobbing. My sister called and told me I had to get it together before I could call you. It was the hardest thing I have ever had to do. I wanted to curl up in your arms and cry but I couldn't. We all know you are a fighter and you were going to take this disease head on. And that is exactly what you did. No tears! No Whining! Just Action! On May 1st we honored your fight as we walked in the Race. I'm not sure that I have ever seen you look prouder.

Today is my first official Mother's Day. I have two amazing step sons Roy and Gavin. They have quickly become such a special part of my life. Whenever I have a question about them I always run to you. How did you do this? What should I do about this? And you ALWAYS have the right answer. As I see you with your grand kids I already know how blessed they are because they have a Grammie like you. There is no other like you.

As I conclude I am fighting back a few tears but I know my mother wouldn't want me to cry. I just don't know if this letter articulates all of my feelings. You have been a rock to me and have never once wavered. Thank you! Putting on "mommy" shoes is one of the hardest jobs in the world but I have the best role model to follow. If I can only do it half as good as you.

With all my love,

Summer